{"id":940,"date":"2007-01-05T20:12:21","date_gmt":"2007-01-06T03:12:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ourthoughts.ca\/2007\/01\/05\/staying-away-because-of-others\/"},"modified":"2007-01-05T20:12:21","modified_gmt":"2007-01-06T03:12:21","slug":"staying-away-because-of-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ourthoughts.ca\/2007\/01\/05\/staying-away-because-of-others\/","title":{"rendered":"Staying away because of others."},"content":{"rendered":"

The other day, I visited someone who is LDS but who no longer attends church. She said it is because of the hypocrisy she saw with the local leaders where she grew up. According to her, the leaders were inconsistent with how they gave out church discipline. For example, a bishop would disfellowship one person for fornication, yet put someone else on informal probation for fornication. She saw this as hypocrisy and as a result, she no longer comes to church.<\/p>\n

Two things I don’t understand: why are people still staying away from church because of so-called hypocrisy, and why does someone allow the actions of others affect their own spiritual life?<\/p>\n

People have been preaching for years that the people in the church are imperfect and are human. Despite all this preaching, people still expect members to be perfect and use their imperfections as excuses to stop coming to church.<\/p>\n

Likewise, why would someone let the actions of another dictate whether they come to worship, partake of the sacrament, serve in the church, share their testimonies with others and so on?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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