{"id":660,"date":"2006-05-08T18:56:14","date_gmt":"2006-05-09T01:56:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ourthoughts.ca\/2006\/05\/08\/pornography-attractiveness\/"},"modified":"2006-05-08T19:03:16","modified_gmt":"2006-05-09T02:03:16","slug":"pornography-attractiveness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ourthoughts.ca\/2006\/05\/08\/pornography-attractiveness\/","title":{"rendered":"Pornography & Attractiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"

In the inaugarl episode<\/a> of the Mormon Archipelago Podcast, Elisabeth of BCC<\/a> reviewed the book Confronting Pornography: A Guide to Prevention and Recovery for Individuals, Loved Ones and Leaders<\/cite>. In part, she quoted the following from page 153 of the book:<\/p>\n

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It?\u00a2\u201a\u00c7\u00a8\u201a\u00d1\u00a2s not uncommon for a wife to believe that if she were more attractive, more alluring, if she were ?\u00a2\u201a\u00c7\u00a8?\u00ecenough for him?\u00a2\u201a\u00c7\u00a8\u00ac\u00f9, he wouldn?\u00a2\u201a\u00c7\u00a8\u201a\u00d1\u00a2t turn to these perfect images of other women.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I do not know if every woman faced with her husband’s addiction to pornography asks herself these question. If that is the case (I can only assume the doctor and social workers who authored the book have done their research), why? Why do women feel pornography is about attractiveness? Why do they feel their level of attractiveness is the solution? Or are women correct in these assertion.<\/p>\n

[It was a good first podcast, by the way. I normally find RT’s podcasting style boring, but he did a good job here.]<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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