Let’s say that a young LDS man who wishes to be a good husband has his plans in place for how he’s going to provide for his future wife and children.
Too often, though, he gives the matter no further thought, as if husbanding began and ended with earning a living.
But he must also prepare his mental image of what a marriage is supposed to be, so that he can be ready to step into the role of husband without any rude shocks — to him or to his new wife.
Husbands need to pick up the slack
