He then said the Lord may have told you that you would be called as PP but He didn’t say WHEN you would be called that. Well when you put it that way!! Point was that was the first time I got called to something that I didn’t know about. Move forward to just before Christmas. After only 1 1.2 years as PP I get released to be called as Ward Family History Consultant. That came out of left field. Totally out of the blue. I to this day know it was “not right” but did I make a big stink about it? Well in the office right there and then I did. I told the Bishop how I felt and that I thought he was wrong and that the Spirit was telling me it was wrong.

It was the first time ever in a very long list of callings that I refused to be set apart right then and there. I broke down uncontrollably to the point that I had to leave. I have since been set apart. I am doing my calling and I do love my calling and work very hard at it as I do with all of mine. Do I think it was still wrong? Yes. BUT!! Regardless if I think it was right or wrong he is my Priesthood leader and I sustained him. What he asked of me was not unrighteous. We are both entitled to feel the guidance of the Spirit and on Judgment Day all will come out in the wash.

On an ending note the person that was called to replace me 2 days later went through the EXACT same thing I went through in the Bishop’s office. The following day the person that was called to replace her went through the exact same scenario. None of us had spoken to the other until after Sunday when we were all released and called. Ironic that 3 of us in one week went through the same thing.

I don’t have an answer for you JM. We all have to do what we think is right and for the right reasons. We don’t know what is going on in the Bishop/Stake President’s mind or any other leaders. We don’t know what goes on during their prayers. I know for us, we have a new temple that is being built out here. Our very first temple!! I know that the Bishop had need of someone who was direct and enthusiastic about family history in this calling. Someone who could get others passionate about their genealogy.

Just as you were really good in your Stake Mission calling and knew your stuff inside out, I did too with mine. I don’t get it when someone is very good at they are doing why they would be released to put someone in there that hates it. Maybe it isn’t what we can learn from it but what others can learn.

I don’t see any “danger” with any of those.

If we’re referring to “danger” as literal, then I have to agree that there is no actual danger in leaving any calling unstaffed.

have you ever had a call extended to you that you felt like was not inspired?

Yeah, I’m doubtful my being called as EQP was inspired. There were few candidates at the time and I was the only one who had been president before.

I certainly haven’t changed anything in that time.

Another question – have you ever had a call extended to you that you felt like was not inspired? Or have you ever had a strong witness that a call was inspired? I’ve experienced both of those. It’s quite interesting to go through that.

I don’t see any “danger” with any of those. Nor do I see any with any calling.

But let’s take one of your examples… the ward organist. This position is vacant and no inspiration is forthcoming. Like you pointed out, you would need to find a sub, sing a capella, or wheel in the organ/electric piano from the primary/relief society room and have it play itself, or even play the hymns off of a CD player.

Aren’t any of those options better than a desperation call?

There is no danger in leaving a position unstaffed until the Lords choice comes along. That is, if we really believe in A of F 5.

For instance?

For instance what? You asked what the danger would be if a calling was left unfilled. I am saying the “danger” would vary depending on the calling.

If the Primary presidency first counsellor was unstaffed, the “danger” would be the rest of the presidency would have to pick up the slack. If the ward organist was unstaffed, the “danger” would be someone would have to find a substitute organist each week or everyone sings a capella. If the ward bulletin editor was unstaffed, the “danger” woudl be there would be no bulletins on Sunday.

As you can see, the “danger”, as I stated, depends on the position.

So let’s say that this ward has a single unstaffed position… that of the 11 year old boys primary class.

The bishopric, after asking, receives no inspriation on whom to call. I see the options as follows:

1) Leave the position vacant – merge the primary class with other classes

2) Leave the position vacant – keep seeking inspiration until the answer comes, have someone substitute teach the class in the mean time (a parent of one of the boys, someone in the primary presidency, someone in the bishopric, etc.)

3) Pick someone available and make an uninspired call out of desparation.

Why would any priesthood leader worth his salt ever go to option three? What if the right person for this call is moving into the ward in a few weeks time? What if there are other conditions that need to be met until the inspration comes?

Priesthood leaders short-change the ward when they act out of desparation.

(If I’ve missed another reasonable option, please identify it)