Comments on: Protesting Father’s Day https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/ Thought-provoking commentary on life, politics, religion and social issues. Thu, 21 Jun 2007 11:28:58 +0000 hourly 1 By: Mary Siever https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30406 Thu, 21 Jun 2007 11:28:58 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30406 Uh…no I didn’t say that.

I am saying don’t pour accolades on mothers in front of those who can’t.

You can’t compare Christmas/Jewish children with Mother’s Day/infertile.

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By: rick https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30399 Thu, 21 Jun 2007 04:05:55 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30399 …and a rose on a Sunday would somehow make up for that pain?

My intent is to shed light on the whole weird idea of these unnecessary artificial social rituals.

Does Valentine’s day unduly pick at those scabs of those without a love in their lives? Does Christmas make the Jewish kids sad?

I think you see what I’m getting at.

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By: Mary Siever https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30384 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 22:45:54 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30384 Rick

I wasn’t talking about “breeding”, I am talking about infertility. Perhaps you haven’t experienced the excruciating heartache to want to be a mother, or a father and to not be able to be so. It isn’t a matter of “propagating”, it’s wanting to be a mother. I suppose you would have to experience it to empathise or even sympathise with it. It’s not a matter of pity. I am not talking about having hordes of children. How about one? I speak from very painful experience here. There was a time when I thought my body would completely betray me and I would never have a baby. And I don’t mean just through birth, but that we would never be able to afford to adopt, either. Yes, I sympathise with the men too.

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By: rick https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30365 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 20:20:07 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30365 Oh, I pity them and their father.

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By: Kim Siever https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30350 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 19:03:21 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30350

some people pity a family who only have two kids

I just pity families with two children if rick is their dad. ;)

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By: rick https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30347 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 18:43:50 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30347 Don’t leave out all the single guys who can’t seem to find a mate with whom to spread their seed.
Or the guys who are married but are incapable of procreating.
The problem, I believe, is the enhanced emphasis on breeding that the lay population (and some of the leaders) of the LDS propagate.
My word, some people pity a family who only have two kids. It’s a bit much.

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By: Mary Siever https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30329 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 11:19:55 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30329 Well then let’s not continue hurting those who can’t be mothers by raving about how wonderful mothers are and how much better they are in front of the mothers who can’t get pregnant or carry a baby to term, reminding them over and over of their failure.

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By: rick https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30322 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 05:51:58 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30322 What the heck is a ‘Mother in Zion’?
Is is called ‘Mothers in Zion’ day?
No. It’s Mother’s day.

If you want to make up a new celebration for all the non-mothers who like to fancy themselves breeders, go ahead.

I’m telling you that I think Mothers day acknowledgements should be reserved for actual mothers … here on Earth.

Call me a purist.

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By: JM https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30299 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 03:46:33 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30299 s nice to have some celebration in sacrament meeting. I think it does a whole lot more good in bringing the ward together as a community than everyone sitting there with glazed eyes listening to someone’s silly sentimental twist on tired doctrine."</p> </blockquote> <p>You should move to my ward then... You'll NEVER hear it!</p> ]]>

“Frankly, I think it’s nice to have some celebration in sacrament meeting. I think it does a whole lot more good in bringing the ward together as a community than everyone sitting there with glazed eyes listening to someone’s silly sentimental twist on tired doctrine.”

You should move to my ward then… You’ll NEVER hear it!

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By: ltbugaf https://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/protesting-fathers-day/comment-page-1/#comment-30293 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 02:44:08 +0000 http://www.ourthoughts.ca/2007/06/18/fathers-day/#comment-30293

Every woman is a “mother in zion”

Melissa, where does that idea come from?

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