Peace Be With You
Micky
I don’t think you can make a good argument that someone is not popular even if they are well liked because of their tendancy to follow the crowd.
Either people like them or they don’t—independent of the reasons why.
Don’t kid yourself, there are plenty of “popular people” who feel genuine: love, friendship, peace, joy, happiness, opportunities, etc. even over the long period, while “drinking, swearing, [immodest] dress, ‘going out’ with people, scandalous behaviors, [or] gossiping.”
I’m not saying that some of these things, such as gossiping, won’t come back to bite them, but the rules of long lasting happiness aren’t as hard and fast as you make them out to be.
]]>From a teenage point of view, many kids think popularity is equal to good friends, happiness, love. Not so!
A common way to achieve this is through following the crowd, i.e. drinking, swearing, dress, “going out” with people, scandalous behaviors, gossiping. Doing these things is very easy; therefore the results are “easy” in that they have no staying power, like being “high”: it doesnt last very long.
The fruit of the tree of life is found in following Christ’s gospel of love and repentance. Charity and kindness give us love, friendship, security, peace. We are able to make solid friendships in high school by being CHristlike to people. By putting in the long-term, “from the heart” effort, we reap long-term spiritually bonding rewards.
That is all!
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