Interesting that you mention some things are considered OK at other services but not in LDS worship. I know my mother in law was appalled and nearly walked out the first time she entered an LDS chapel, because people were so loud and boisterous. She had been raised in an Episcopalian tradition where you walk into a chapel, pull out the bench and pray in silence until the service starts. I’m on her side. I try not have my pre-Sacrament meeting conversations in the chapel, but take them outside. However, in my current ward, I don’t seem to be influencing others much on this point.

I think the best way to avoid these kinds of disturbances is to basically inform the visitor about how things are done.

Disruptive during sacrament? Escort them to the lobby and they can listen on the speakers.

Disruptive during another part? Have someone take them into the hall and explain how things work.

I think many LDS make too many assuptions about how people act during church. For some outsiders, things which may seem disruptive to the LDS are common practise at other services.

In regard to the drunk: You explain how things are done, and if they’re willing to follow the guidelines, they can stick around; otherwise they ay feel free to leave or be escorted out. Easy.

I agree.

I don’t think there is any way to ensure this doesn’t happen again.

Not that I would ever promote the idea that guests should not be welcome in church, but at that moment I was wishing that we could lock the doors at 9:00 and check ID when people come in.

Is there any way to ensure that visitors can freely attend our services while avoiding situations like this?