Comments on: Cultural Sealings

By: john scherer

john scherer — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

I’m fretting the day, though far in the future, when I or one of my children may have to explain to their grandparents, the nature of the temple and the fact that they won’t be able to attend the ceremony. I’m hoping, obviously, that my parents and in-laws will have accepted the gospel at that time, but if not I know it will be a tough thing to explain and maybe hurtful. We are a close family. I pray that civil cermonies will be able to occur right before or after sealings by that time.

By: ltbugaf

ltbugaf — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Kim: Like the Indian Placement Program thread and the Relief Society thread, this is yet another topic that boils down to, “Isn’t the Church wrong to have this policy?” Do you ever blog anything else? Have you considered blogging about why something might be right about the Church?

By: Kim Siever

Kim Siever — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

"Do you ever blog anything else?"

Do you ever read anything else I post on my blog?

By: ltbugaf

ltbugaf — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

TouchÃ©! You've already posted one about who the next Prophet will be, which clearly isn't in the same category.

As Gilda Radner would say, never mind...

:)

By: ltbugaf

ltbugaf — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

(I wanted to add that last post before you could even reply, but it took me too long to get the accent on "TouchÃ©!" and you beat me to it.)

Anyway, on the main topic: I think the Prophet believes we should encourage couples to solemnize their actual weddings as well as their sealings in the temple, to the extent the law allows. It puts the imprimatur of obedience and devotion to divine authority on the marriage from the start. In countries where the laws don't allow this, the Church makes a compromise provision, allowing couples to enter into lesser marriages first and then be sealed as soon as possible thereafter. But if we could have amenable laws passed in other countries, I think the Brethren would ask all couples to be not only sealed but also married in the temples.

By: Mary Siever

Mary Siever — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

My question is, when Kim queries about something why is it that some people automatically freak out and think he is questioning everything the Church stands for? Knowing him as I do, I can truthfully say he is genuinely curious about certain things, especially issues that seem to stem from cultural tradition. He very RARELY is criticising or disagreeing. He just wants to know. Aren’t we encouraged to question things? Good grief, he isn’t questioning the Gospel itself!

By: ltbugaf

ltbugaf — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Ouch!

I didn't think I was "freaking out" but I do keep wondering why so many of the topics are basically asking the same question, which is, "Don't you think it's wrong for the Church to be doing so-and-so?"

It's usually much later in the debate that I freak out.

:)

By: Mary Siever

Mary Siever — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Ah, but you are assuming he is saying “Don’t you think it’s wrong for the Church to do so-and-so?” He isn’t saying that. He is just asking why, so as to “know”. He has an inquiring mind and assumes others do too.

Ok perhaps freaking out was too harsh, I am a product of my ’80’s upbringing and have a tendency to use language that reflects that. Ture, it is usually later in the conversation you start to freak out :). You should know Kim never freaks out, no matter how intense the debate gets. He enjoys a good discussion.

By: ltbugaf

ltbugaf — Tue, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000

Well anyway, enough good-natured joshing each other about our discussion techniques. We should veer back to the main topic.

I posted my thought that the Brethren would actually prefer to have the same restrictions in other countries that they have in the US and Canada, if only the laws made it possible. (See, Mary, I am trying to address the actual "why" question.)

Anyone plan to comment on that?